"... so in summary, I'm telling you, my work colleague, about my wife's cruel refusal to give me permission to cheat on her so that you will appreciate and understand why I've had to sleep with hookers regularly for the last 4 years."
Not only that, but a VOLUNTEER co-worker who wasn't being compensated at all for the work she put in for this man who collected donations to support said work. It's like volunteering at a refugee center and having your well compensated boss take you aside and remark how it's just awful that his wife can't just tolerate his crack habit. As he stands against the building trying to freebase, he mumbles something through the crackpipe about how you could help by getting yourself in touch with his wife and talk about all the good work he does. And try not to bother him too much as he's under a lot of stress and needs to go score more crack.
Telling female co-workers who were under your management about your activities with prostitutes and encouraging them to reach out to the wife to convince her it was all OK is sexual harassment. And he had the nerve to complain about being exposed.
He's been enabled all these years by vulnerable exJWs and his wife. And it's still going on even after all this.